What should we do?

is it wrong if we never or we refuse to join activities or vacation?

maybe my attitude is bad because i'm refusing to join a vacation with my friends, but its better rather than i'm acting like a plastic in front of them.

don't why i feel a little bit upset with certain of them, but i just keep the upsetting felling in my heart, just keep it silence.. if they request me to join a vacation or activities i just say 'saya x ikut la, sy mw berjimat' or ' saya malas mau ikut'. always gave that answers but deep inside my heart i want to say 'saya tidak berapa suka jalan dengan kamu' but its too rude to saying like that. who says i don't want to travel? i really want to but too much reasons that keep blocking me to doing that. i still considering other conditions and my conditions.

too difficult to be nice and kind person,right?

what should we do if we begin to hate someone?

i also don't know what to do but here some opinions what should we do.

1. try to forgive them - yea forgiving someone we hate is difficult but try to do that because its make our life more harmony.

2. try to forget what they do to us - truly forgetting what they to to us really impossible but just try maybe its works.

3. if you are Christian try to read the Bible - Bible teach us to be nice and kind person. God WANT us to be like Him.

4. enjoy your life - if there someone that you hate try to forget it and just go through your life without that feeling. life should full of happiness.